compromise?

com·pro·mise ( P ) Pronunciation Key (kmpr-mz)n. A settlement of differences in which each side makes concessions. The result of such a settlement. Something that combines qualities or elements of different things: The incongruous design is a compromise between high tech and early American. A concession to something detrimental or pejorative: a compromise of morality. isnt that the basis of any relationship? i cant remember the last time i saw a compromise. taurra says everything is a power struggle...and it is. and ofcourse she always gets her way too. I CANT REMEMBER THE LAST TIME WE DID SOMETHING I WANTED TO DO. i suppose from now on i should just give up arguing, or voicing my opinion on what we should do. we do what she wants to do, when she wants to do it. i wanted to go visit my parents today, and yesterday she said she would. when i said something about it today, she said no, she wasnt goign to go. the only reason i wanted to go is so she could spend some time with my folks. its important to me that the person i'm dating is atleast comfortable around my parents, and my parents are aroudn them. and as of right now, that isnt the case. i NEED for her to spend some time with my parents. i feel really weird in the situation that i'm in now, and i need for it to be ok, but she isnt letting that happen. i think its mostly 'cause she knows i cant leave, i love her too much. i wonder if she consciously takes advantage of that. of how i cant tell her "no", or cant really do anything that might make her sad. i hope she isnt doing it on purpose...but she IS doing it. on the brighter side..she is goign to lobby to get me to go to the east coast with her. i've never been east. the furthest east i've ever been was vegas :-/